A brief aside before a real post, this is an fe11 invention; and it also doesn’t exist if you play on the higher difficulties.
And this is still - as LeskLyfeld said - bad design. You are telling the player You should be stronger than that! Just get good!
This is the worst and most toxic of mindsets and it actively pushes people away from attempting the game because it makes them feel bad for daring to have the opinion that they are in fact not very good at the videogame and would rather grind instead.
Believe me, the bad player already knows they’re bad. They are trying to have fun, and insulting them for having fun is just ridiculous. If a developer message said to you, outright, “This gauntlet is doable, beat it” - and you sit there and slam your head into it for three hundred hours -
Are you having fun doing that? If you are, then that’s good. But there are a lot of people who don’t have fun attempting the same challenge more than three to five times. They just want it to be done at that point. They’ve felt the struggle, frustration; and they’re not having their experience enhanced by doing it a dozen more times. Why would you then take the opinion that these people, who are not having fun but want to continue, deserve to be kicked while they’re down?
Now, you might want to say I’m being ridiculous, but that is exactly what this is. That is why this is bad game design. Because it really does feel that way. It does not create narrative interest to be told, when I’m struggling to win, that if I have my characters go kick puppies they’ll get really strong.
It makes me go “Wow, the developer is dumb,” and either a. have my characters kick puppies while I wish literally anything else was happening, or b. quit the game and write a bad review. What you want is players to weigh the moral choice there. How much do you care about these digital puppies versus beating the game?
And that really depends on how interesting the rest of the game has been, and my feelings towards puppies.
To quote @SgtSmilies, because it’s a very perfect quote;
It’s just such a good idea, like
You might have these principles, but when your back’s really up against the wall, what do they mean to you?
that’s a fucking cool question to ask your player
and then the answer is “not worth 1 max HP that’s for fucking sure, i’d rather die.”
This, despite being about Megaman Battle Network 4’s Dark Chip system, perfectly encapsulates the problem. The penalty for using the mechanic and its reward are completely untenable ones.
In the case of puppy-kicking, the penalty is my emotional state. Except, two things- first, because in this situation, I’m stuck, I can’t progress unless I do this action. My options are do the morally bad thing, or continue smashing my head into a wall that I have lost all interest in attacking, or not play your game. At some point, I’m just going to pick the last one, because both of the first options are actually the same penalty - my mood decreases.
And second, to me, you the developer are the one kicking the puppies, because you’re the one who decided that kicking puppies was how the player gets to grind.
As I said last year;
“Mages can’t counter” is an incredibly foreign idea to any fire emblem player. If you don’t say it, how could we possibly guess it?
The amount of context your elaboration has completely flips the bit on its head! That’s why people are - your words -
Because, very simply, they aren’t attacking you. They’re saying that, with the context they have (or lack thereof), the idea sounds bad, and are annoyed with you because you keep doing things like this - at which point I can only again repeat this essence:
If you’re asking people for their opinions, you have plenty of options.
Listen to them, ignore them. Engage with them, figure out what their concerns are.
But really, really, really for absolute certainty, look at the elements that are constant! When people are fighting you, what are they actually saying?
They are certainly not saying you’re bad*. They’re saying that, with no extra context, they think X thing isn’t cool.
What if I hate you because you clog the forum with posts and despite being here over a year making them continue to make ones that look poorly thought through?
Or how you, I don’t know, continue to totally ignore any well reasoned point.
* Yes this is me saying you’re being a bad poster.